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Sensitive Self-Reliant (S-M-F)
S-M-F-I-E-D
Subtle Observer Buffer
“As a quiet observer watching gently from afar, I give conflicts plenty of time as a buffer.”
- #SubtleObserver
- #CalmSensitivity
- #TimeToCoolDown
Great questions to ask me
- I'll step back a little and take a calm look at our relationship.
Conflict prescription
Do
Step back and observe the situation, then return calmly.
Avoid
Don't use being an observer as an excuse to become a bystander in your own relationship.
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- S-M-F-C-A-RQuiet Guardian Go-getterA quiet guardian who's deeply devoted, I gently reach out first to clear up misunderstandings.
- S-M-F-C-A-DHideaway BufferI'm quietly devoted, but when my heart is hurt I retreat to my own hideaway to heal.
- S-M-F-C-E-RDelicate Empathy SolverI value a deep emotional bond, and when friction arises I soothe hearts right away with delicate words.
- S-M-F-C-E-DGentle-Natured OrganizerI share affection with a gentle touch, and in a conflict I quietly smooth out the emotional aftertaste.
- S-M-F-I-A-ROwn-Haven SolverI act while keeping my own rhythm, and I sort out misunderstandings calmly, firmly, and right away.
- S-M-F-I-A-DCalm Rhythm GuardianA calm, self-reliant soul, I give myself a buffer to return to my natural rhythm when conflict comes up.
- S-M-F-I-E-RRestrained Feeling MediatorI express love with understated warmth, and I resolve friction sincerely and without fuss.